What I Learned - Barney's Version

One moment, one choice, can change the direction of the rest of your life. It's not as if I'm saying that you can never re-adjust or make up for a mistake, but some choices push us into a current that can carry us along for miles.

What is sad, about this movie, but about our lives as well, is how often these decisions are based on fear. We're afraid of what someone else might do.  We're afraid of what we might do.  We're afraid to reveal a secret.  We're afraid to look stupid.  When we allow these fears to guide our decision making we walk a dangerous path.

So what did I learn? Never make decisions in fear-- because you never know which decisions will define you in time.